He wanted a separation
He had started working in another city and he went out one night with his sister. She and her husband have an open marriage, but he always said he didn't agree with that.
Well any ways, he called me and told me that he wanted a separation because we had grown apart. He had been up the weekend before and showed no sign of feeling this way, and so he sprang this on me a few days ago.
He brought up that we had been married for 3 years with no kids and that he wanted to lose weight and since I hadn't (which killed me) that he felt I was holding him back! And I never told him he couldn't go to the bar or anything. I even told him I could forgive him and work on a drunken mistake, but he said that he made up his mind.
He wanted to separate because he wanted to be able to go out without attachments and he didn't even give me a chance! So I have nothing. I lost my job and we thought with him getting a new one that we would be ok. I stopped my unemployment, so I have no money and no assets. This is good on one hand because then he can’t say it’s his. But I’m so heart-broken and he won’t talk to me and I don't know what to do from here!
I wish I could have someone’s advice maybe that's been through this....