He never grew up
We have been married for over twelve years and he never grew up. We aren’t divorced yet, but I’m working on figuring everything out so I can do this. My husband lies about everything and is very immature. He doesn't know how to manage our money so I took over that chore. He supposedly forgets almost everything I ask him to do, so I do it. Now I handle almost all the responsibilities and it's getting harder now because we have sons and they are not seeing a "man" as their father. My therapist thinks he may have ADD but at this point I don't care too much. He lies about the smallest things yet he does not trust me.