He left me with nothing
He claims I never paid ATTENTION to him and the children. Then one day my ex tells it’s not working and that he filed for divorce. He tells me that I need to make an appointment with his lawyer to sign papers. I asked him why? He yells at me and says that I and my 21 year old son (diagnosed with having mild retardation) were stressing him out! But later on I found out it was all an alibi.
I feel that he was having an extra marital affair with my co-worker. One day I had a luncheon with my supervisor and co-worker at a hotel. I asked if I could bring my husband with me since we were both getting off at about that time. We met there and I introduced my co-worker to him, but it seems he had known her for a while already.
Then he filed for divorce a week before my birthday. He made it really fast because it was uncontested and the decree was final 2 weeks later. He then started babysitting my co-worker’s daughter 2 weeks after our divorce. And less than a week after that she moved in. She's been living there ever since.
For years my ex has been mentally, verbally, and emotionally abusing me and now this? I've researched the internet as to why his personality is like this… as though I felt I was sabotaged into signing. Oh my god… I've been married to a man who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Everything I read describes everything he is. Can I overturn this and sue him for the affair, desertion, and mistreatment of my son with a disability? He TOOK AWAY my civil rights. When I questioned him as to why didn't me give ample time, he claims he didn't want me to know what he was going to do. He says he can’t afford to support me and the kids, but yet he can afford his girlfriend and a baby, plus he obtained power of attorney for another family's children to take them to their appointments and shopping for their needs. I feel my 3 children are being neglected and fending for themselves. He left me with NOTHING!