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Inspiration for Starting Over

To help you in your journey to a new life, the following topics were written to give you inspiration, help you deal with what you are facing, find your inner direction, and to move on to a productive and happy life.....

Divorce can be an emotional roller coaster. Optimism and inspiration over life’s possibilities can suddenly swing to depression over what was lost. It helps to know that you’re not going crazy, just growing emotionally.

In essence, divorce is the death of your marriage, and your healing process will probably be similar to how you would accept the death of someone close. There is this shock of knowing that it really is over, followed by anger over missed opportunities and placing blame.  It’s easy to feel like a victim at this point, and experience depression. You can feel like a failure, with no inspiration to do anything, watching your self-esteem take a nose dive.  

Thankfully, the final stage is perspective and acceptance. You start letting go of the resentment, and start feeling better about yourself and life in general. You can then emerge from your divorce a stronger and better person.  Starting over is your chance to become the person that you always wanted to be. 
©Tracy Achen 2001 
At WomansDivorce.com we have one focus - helping women survive their divorce and rebuild their lives.
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