This is an informational resource on Virginia divorce. You can look over the relevant VA divorce laws, locate skilled lawyers and mediators, access downloadable divorce forms or services to prepare your paperwork online, and use the official child support guidelines worksheet to find out the level of support which may be awarded. We also have more information about general divorce topics, as well as tips for dealing with your emotions and ideas for starting over in our divorce articles section.
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What are the residency requirements for divorce in VA? - To get a divorce or annulment in Virginia, at least one of the spouses needs to have resided in the state for at least six months prior to filing. If either or both spouses are enlisted in the military and have been stationed in the state for at least six months, they will meet the residency requirement whether they are deployed or on base. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-97)
When can a marriage be annulled? An annulment is a decree that the marriage is void or voidable, meaning it was never legal in the first place. To qualify for an annulment, it must be found that:
An annulment won't be granted if the party who applied for the annulment willingly lived with the other party before the marriage after becoming aware of the situation being claimed as grounds for an annulment. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-89.1)
Is a period of separation required in Virginia before a divorce can be filed? - To get a divorce in Virginia, you must be separated from your spouse for least a year before filing for a no fault divorce if you have minor children. This time period is reduced to six months if you don’t have minor children and have a signed separation agreement. Simply signing a separation agreement doesn't mean you are actually separated; you need to have stopped co-habituating with the intent that the marriage is over.
Is there more than one type of divorce? - There are two types of divorce in Virginia: divorce from the bond of matrimony and divorce from bed and board.
A divorce from bed and board does not dissolve the marriage, but rather recognizes that the couple are perpetually separated and allows the marital estate to be divided and issues concerning the minor children to be settled. Under a divorce from bed and board, neither is permitted to remarry during the life of the other spouse unless they seek a divorce from the bond of matrimony. Also, a divorce from bed and board is only allowed in fault-based divorce proceedings based on cruelty, reasonable apprehension of bodily harm, or willful desertion. The advantage of a divorce from bed and board is that it requires no waiting period before it will be granted.
A divorce from the bond of matrimony is a complete and absolute divorce. A divorce from the bond of matrimony may be granted based on no-fault or fault grounds. Generally, a divorce from the bond of matrimony requires a separation period of six months if the couple has no children, or 12 months if they have minor children before a divorce will be decreed. The only exception is if the ground being claimed for divorce are felony conviction (and being court-ordered to serve at least a year of confinement) or for adultery, sodomy or buggery outside of marriage (which all must be proven).
If a divorce from bed and board is granted, either spouse may ask the Court to merge the decree into a divorce from the bonds of matrimony if they have not cohabitated and remained separated for at least one year.
What are the grounds for divorce in Virginia? The grounds for divorce include:
How are assets and debts divided? Virginia is an equitable distribution state, meaning that the assets and debts will be divided in a fair and equitable manner. Only property acquired during the marriage or that which is titled in both spouses names is subject to division. Separate property not subject to division includes property owned prior to the marriage, property and assets acquired in an inheritance which are kept separate, assets that were given as a gift from a third party, or assets acquired after the spouses have separated.
Some separate property may be considered comingled if the other spouse's name was added to the property after the marriage or if separate property was sold and the proceeds were comingled with marital property. Some property is considered hybrid property, which is part marital and part separate property. For example, the increase in the value of a retirement account that occurred during the marriage would be considered marital property, while the value of the retirement account prior to the marriage would be considered separate property.
Debt likewise is considered a marital debt if it arose during the marriage (even if it is only under one spouse's name), as well as debt listed under both spouses names. If a debt was incurred by one spouse during the marriage for a non-marital purpose (for example, possibly due to an affair), the court may designate the entire debt as separate or a portion of the debt as marital and a portion of the debt as separate. Other liabities considered as separate debts are those incurred before the marriage or after the date the spouses separated.
Pensions and retirement benefits accrued during the marriage may also be subject to division. However, neither party may receive more than half the value of the other party's pension or retirement plan that accumulated during the marriage. The court may order direct payment of such percentage of the marital share by direct assignment to a spouse from the employer trustee, plan administrator or other holder of the benefits.
If the parties cannot reach an agreement on the division of the marital estate, the court will use the following factors in the equitable division of assets and debts:
In equitably dividing the marital estate, the courts may divide the marital property, order the property sold, order a monetary award to one of the parties, or transfer jointly-titled marital property to one of the spouses. The courts may also divide responsibility for marital debts. It is important to remember that creditors are not bound by a divorce decree, which means both spouse remain jointly liable for the debt until the debt is repaid. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-107.3)
Who is eligible for spousal support? Spousal support and maintenance are generally reserved for instances where there has been a long-term marriage and there is a significant gap in earning capabilities between the spouses. In determining the eligibility for spousal support, the court will take into consideration the grounds for divorce, especially if adultery has occurred.
The court will also take in other factors specific to the marriage and spouses, including:
If the court finds that spousal support is warranted, it may decree that support be made as periodic payments for a set period of time, or in periodic payments for an undefined duration, or as a lump sum award, or in any combination thereof. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-107.1)
What is the process for restoring a maiden name or former name? - If you want to resume a former or maiden name, you can ask for it in your divorce. You'll also need to file a name change affidavit and pay the filing fee. The judge will then enter it after decreeing a divorce from the bonds of matrimony. You can also change your name even if there wasn't a provision in your divorce decree by applying to the court to restore your former or maiden name. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-121.4)
Will I have to take a parenting education class in Virginia? If custody, visitation, or support is being contested, both parents are required to attend a parenting seminar within the year preceding their court appearance and show proof of such attendance. They may also agree to attend such a class within 45 days of initiating legal proceedings. The court may also require parents seeking an uncontested divorce if it finds good cause. The seminar is required to be a minimum of 4 hours. The fee charged a party for participation in such program shall be based on the party's ability to pay; however, no fee in excess of $50 may be charged. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-103)
How is child custody decided in Virginia? Two types of custody will be decided in divorce and custody proceedings: "Legal custody" which means parental responsibility for the care and control of the child and authority to make decisions concerning the child and "Physical custody" which outlines the physical and custodial care of the child.
If parents cannot agree on custody, the court will make it's determination based on the best interest of the child. The best interests of the child include, but are not limited to:
If the parents can't reach their own custody arrangement, it will be up to a judge to determine child custody. According to the statutes, “there shall be no presumption in favor of any form of custody.” As a result, the court may order any combination of legal and physical custody. This may mean that residential custody is equally shared by the parents or that one parent has primary residential custody, while child spends time with the other parent on a regular basis. Courts tend to lean towards joint legal custody, meaning that both parents are involved in making major decisions about how the children. There are situations in which sole custody is appropriate. Sole custody means that one parent retains responsibility for the care and control of a child and has primary authority to make decisions concerning the child.
Litigated child custody is expensive and most parents are usually not happy with the custody arrangements handed down by the court. For this reason, parents are encouraged to reach a mutual agreement, either on their own or through mediation. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-124.1 through § 20-124.3)
How much child support will be ordered in my case? In the eyes of the court, both parents are expected to contribute to the support their children. The amount of child support that will be ordered is dependent upon the percentage of time the child spends with each parent, each parent's income, the total cost of living, and child care expenses. The formula for calculating child support when one parent is the primary custodian is different that the formula used when the parents share physical custody (where the noncustodial parent has the children for more than 90 days). The court will follow the child support guidelines based on the custody arrangements and apply the guidelines worksheet to arrive at the amount of child support to be paid.
The costs for health, vision, and dental insurance will be added to the basic child support obligation. Also added to the basic child support obligation is any child-care costs incurred due to employment of the custodial parent. The court may also require a parent to maintain an existing life insurance policy to provide financial security for a child in the event that the parent obligated to pay child support dies. Child support may be modified at a later date due to a material change in circumstances of either parent.
Generally, Virginia child support ceases when a child reaches the age of 18, or is legally emancipated. Support may be continued until the age of 19 (or when the child graduates from high school, whichever occurs first) if the child is a full-time high school student, is living at home with the parent receiving support, and is not self-supporting. Child support may also be ordered to continue for a child over the age of 18 who is severely and permanently mentally or physically disabled if the child lives with the custodial parent. (Title 20: Chapter 6 - § 20-108.1 and § 20-108.2)
Reference: Code of VA - Title 20 Domestic Relations