If you are going through a divorce, mortgage issues need to be addressed and
taken care of if the two of you own a home together. Even if your divorce decree states that
your husband will be
responsible for the mortgage, you need to realize that this won't remove your liability in the eyes of the lender. When you and your spouse signed the
mortgage agreement, you both promised to be held responsible for it's payment.
To remove this liability, the house will need to be sold or the mortgage will
either need to be refinanced or assumed. You can also choose to maintain
the mortgage the way it is, but this is a risky proposition. To help you
understand what your options are, read the following ways to handle your divorce
mortgage obligations.
Retain the Original Mortgage
Unfortunately, this is the option that many people unknowingly
make when they get a divorce. In essence one spouse agrees to keep the
home, but the mortgage isn't changed after the divorce is finalized. If
this is your situation, realize that if your ex doesn't make the mortgage
payments, it can ruin your credit if your ex defaults on the loan.
Maybe you want to retain the co-ownership of the home and leave
the original mortgage intact until the children are grown. Once the
children are gone, the house can be sold and the proceeds can be split. To make
this arrangement work, both you and your ex should be able to cooperate in such
a way that the mortgage payments, taxes and upkeep are paid in a timely
fashion.
Like I said earlier, this is a risky proposition. First of
all, do you really want to keep that closely tied to your ex. Secondly, if
your ex has any future liens filed against him, they can be attached to your
house. This ties up the title and makes it harder to sell the house.
And finally, having an existing mortgage
can make it difficult to qualify for a new mortgage because it will increase
your debt to income ratio. You're better off trying some of the other
divorce mortgage options below.
Sell the House
The easiest way to remove liability for a mortgage when going through a
divorce is to sell the marital home. The proceeds from the sale can be
used to pay off the existing mortgage, and anything that is left over after
closing costs can be split between you and your spouse. Generally, it's a
good idea to sell the house before the divorce is finalized to prevent future
opportunities to fight over the sales price. Plus, neither one of you will have to worry about the other not making mortgage payments,
maintaining the house, or paying taxes and insurance.
One Spouse Keeps the Home and Refinances the Mortgage
This is a common strategy when one spouse wants to keep the home. In
this situation, the spouse who wants the house generally buys out the other
spouse's equity share and refinances the mortgage into his or her own
name. If you choose this option, you should have your spouse
sign a quit claim deed to relinquish any rights that he has to the
home.
If your spouse is the one who will be keeping the home, it is very important
that the mortgage be refinanced in his name only. As long as your name is
on the mortgage, you will be liable for the mortgage payment if your ex defaults
on the loan.
If your divorce is not yet finalized and your ex will be
keeping the home, it's a good idea to include language in your divorce decree
that your spouse will refinance the home. Along with this, you should also
have your spouse sign a Deed of Trust to Secure Assumption. This gives you
the right to foreclose and take back ownership of the house if he doesn't
refinance and subsequently defaults on the mortgage. After your divorce if
finalized, you should notify the mortgage lender of your security interest and
request that they notify you at your current address of any missed payments.
One Spouse Keeps the Home and Assumes the Mortgage
A divorce mortgage assumption might be an option if your bank will
approve it, but you need to realize that not all mortgage loans are assumable.
Therefore, the first thing to do is to contact your mortgage lender to see if
they will allow you to assume the loan.
If the bank will let you assume the loan, you start the process
by filling out an assumption agreement and a release of liability. The
lender will also need documentation to determine if you can pay the mortgage
based solely on your own income. If you meet the lenders underwriting
guidelines, you may also need to furnish a copy of your divorce decree and a
copy of the quit claim deed. If the assumption is approved, the lender
generally executes a release of liability to the other spouse.
This can be a good option if your bank will allow the assumption
and you have good terms on your existing mortgage. Even though there are
assumption fees, they are usually much less than what it would cost to refinance
the mortgage.
This column is not intended to take the place of
professional advice, but rather to provide financial information about the
various issues that arise in a divorce. For specific recommendations
concerning your situation, you should retain an experienced certified divorce
financial analyst who can answer your questions based on the details of your
case.