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Married me for a green card

by D

I met the man who became my husband in another country and eventually brought him back to the United States. He had a temporary green card and interviewed for a permanent green card on 10/7. Just two weeks later he left me. He complained that I messed up his credit by putting his name on my credit cards so he could get his permanent green card.

He refuses to help me in any financial situations and spent my tax return behind my back. He said if I did not file for him, I would not be getting a return. I went ahead and filed last year’s income tax return for him and a grandson who is not living in this country.

He will not let me know where he is living. He still comes by and asks me to lend him money, but he never repays me. He even pawned my jewelry that I gave to him.

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Married me for a green card

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He had a kid with an ex-wife in his homeland
by: Anonymous

I am a US citizen and was married to an undocumented foreigner 7 years ago. He divorced his wife in his homeland and we got married after his divorce. He has 1 daughter with his ex-wife, age 19. The entire 7 years of being married, we did not live together. His reasons were because of his religion. Then when he finally received his green card, he went home to his homeland to visit his daughter. After he came back here to the US he started acting cold and distant. Then after more than a year, I saw his ex-wife in Facebook with a small child. After some investigating, I was able to get a hold of that child's birth certificate. And guess who the father was?
MY HUSBAND!

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if you divorce,
by: lucy

i believe that (ask a real lawyer - im not one) if you divorce before 2 years of marriage he will not become a citizen and could have his green card revoked.

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he maried me for a green card
by: Anonymous

well i will start by saying,some wemen need to stop being stupid.second also need to take your share of blame.i say this couse i know 2 coples right now as we speek,divorcing and one got a green card the other one dint.this happens when people just start to live together before they even know what the other person is like.and third no one can make you get any one a green card,if you did it it was for your own reasons.and to keep a man that i am sure you knew didnt want to be with you.but at the time being with him made you look and feel good infront of the world.but know that (you) got him a green card you want to say it was all his falt and all the other stuff that you know want the world to belive you dint already knew that he took your money.dint take care of you and yes that even now per your own words,he comes around some time and he puts a gun to your head to give him money.oops did i lfortget the same men that you still give sex and money too.and you are coplaining about now.
its time wemen every where start to first be responsable,second,act your age,third stop blaming the world for your lack of desitions.
if your not educated get educated,if you are educated help some of this stupid wemen who have mommy sindrome and dont wish to grow up.

ma name is ms only me if anyone wishes to answer.

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