He could not be trusted

by debra

There was infidelity from day one of the marriage with many women. But yet he denied me emotional and physical intimacies. He literary worked me to death physically and beyond my physical capabilities for his better benefits only. He mistreated the children and me, and he never wanted to do anything together like a family if it cost any money. He made the children and I live at poverty level while he was living the good life.

He took me around some of the females he had affairs with. There were severe communication issues due to the fact he was working to keep his other life a secret. And he was working to keep his bad intentions for me and the children off the table. So any question I had he would turn into a fight to avoid the question.

He was very passive aggressive toward me. If I would push for an answer or would not accept his excuse, he would do very hurtful vindictive acts to me. As a result of way too much and so much more--I no longer love or respect him, nor do I like him at all.

I feel he has no integrity, lacks empathy, and he does not have what I considered honorable ethics. I can’t be with a man that I cannot hold pride in. And having a man who is good and decent with morals and honorable ethics is very important to me. I can catch my husband’s hand in the cookie jar, and he would sit there and make up all kinds of lies about what I just witnessed, and twist it all around to make me look stupid.

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Mine always has affairs
by: Anonymous

My husband has always had other women. He finds women who are married and breaks up the marriage with promises, telling them he is going to leave me and marry them. I believe he probably has always cheated on me. I found out about 14 years ago. Since then he has had 2 affairs I know of. I am financially dependent on him and he uses that fact. Over the past years he also became addicted to prescription drugs. He is now drug free but still involved with other women. He's not much of a father either. He never spends any time with them. He thinks if he pays the bills he's doing his job. As I'm writing this I realize what a total jerk he is, but I how do I go out on my own with no money or skills? Now he has left the home but continues to pay for everything and acts like he still lives here.

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