He was having a long term affair
My husband was having a long term affair. I never suspected a thing until my brother in law told me I should be watching him a little closer. I checked the phone bill and there was a number he would text and call constantly. He even did it while I was in the hospital delivering our 8th child, who was born still born due to the cord being wrapped around his neck. But the whole week I was in the hospital, he was texting and talking to this other woman.
They both tell me it wasn't sexual, they were just very good friends. I had never heard of this woman until I saw her phone number on my bill....so if she was just a friend, why was she a secret? The lies continued and finally I couldn't take it anymore and left! He has shown NO remorse and has actually become verbally abusive to me, saying I ruined our family because I am such an idiot, leaving him over a female friend! I filed for divorce and am waiting for a court date!