He could not be trusted
There was infidelity from day one of the marriage with many women. But yet he denied me emotional and physical intimacies. He literary worked me to death physically and beyond my physical capabilities for his better benefits only. He mistreated the children and me, and he never wanted to do anything together like a family if it cost any money. He made the children and I live at poverty level while he was living the good life.
He took me around some of the females he had affairs with. There were severe communication issues due to the fact he was working to keep his other life a secret. And he was working to keep his bad intentions for me and the children off the table. So any question I had he would turn into a fight to avoid the question.
He was very passive aggressive toward me. If I would push for an answer or would not accept his excuse, he would do very hurtful vindictive acts to me. As a result of way too much and so much more--I no longer love or respect him, nor do I like him at all.
I feel he has no integrity, lacks empathy, and he does not have what I considered honorable ethics. I can’t be with a man that I cannot hold pride in. And having a man who is good and decent with morals and honorable ethics is very important to me. I can catch my husband’s hand in the cookie jar, and he would sit there and make up all kinds of lies about what I just witnessed, and twist it all around to make me look stupid.